Thursday, 3 October 2013

"You're doing what?!"

That's the reaction I got a few times when I tried to explain this trip. In European terms, what I'm doing doesn't make much sense. In Kenyan terms it makes perfect sense. So what is it I'm doing here again?

On 11 April 2012, I received a phonecall telling me that my father passed away very suddenly. With such an unexpected death, everything is topsy turvy. Nothing is ready, everything is somehow muddled through. Within a day of the call, I found myself on a plane to Kenya. With lots of help from family and friends we got through the initial chaos. When the dust, and emotions settle, it is time to clear up.

Clearing up in my particular case means taking care of my father's old house. Unfortunately it's seen better days and needs a lot of attention. After four trips to Kenya spread over a 16 month period, it became clear the only way to tackle this is to come out and stay here till it's finished. And so here I am.

So back to the beginning. "You're doing what?!" Coming out to Kenya for 3 months and spending a minor fortune on fixing a house miles away may seem like insanity for a European. However by Kenyan standards it makes sense; taking care of the house my father worked very hard for and the ground around it where he is buried.  In time it will hopefully become an asset for me and my family as well.


And so that's what I'm doing here - fixing a house, while reconnecting with my roots at the same time.

2 comments:

  1. Great Blog John ! It's great to be able to follow you and understand the adventure you are living... Very much like your experince of fixing the car ! toute une aventure !!! The house fixing seems a hell of a challenge but the seting up of your squad seems that you can cope with it !!! The best seems anyhow the reconnection to your roots, and seems you have a very extended familly and friends to support you in the adventure ! Ca donne envie de revoyager tout ca! Allez All my Best ! David

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    1. Thanks David... as ever, progress is slow, but progress is there! See you back in brussels.

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